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			<title><![CDATA[ large vehicle ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We are starting the adoption process, and hoping to adopt a sibling group.  What vehicles are best for 9 or more passengers?  Thanks
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			<title><![CDATA[ corey weeks and carrie weeks ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ i'm in search of corey dean weeks given name and carrie lynn weeks given name corey was born at sparrow hosptial in lansing michigan on july 1 1985 carrie was born a mcpherson hosptial in howell michigan they where adopted by a social woker there both in the same home carrie may have gotten marrie at the age 16 her birthday is sept 28 1987 i hired a confidential intermediary that has been searching for corey since aug 24 2005 she has been searching for carrie since may of 2006. i'm<!--EZCODE... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 06 Oct 2006 11:09:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ New to Colorado ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We are currently preparing to move to Colorado Springs from San Diego. Both my husband and I have family that live in Colorado. I would be very appreciative if anyone from Colorado reading this post would introduce themselves to me so we could connect. It would be nice to have friends in common in Colorado. <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :) --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif ALT=":)"><!--EZCODE EMOTICON END--> <br><br>Melissa<br>adoptive parents<br>15 yr. old girl and 11... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 09 Sep 2006 09:30:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ gossip ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Has anyone felt like they have been shunned by the people around them? There has been some bigger issues and some changes with our oldest adopted son and the people around us are completly unable to understand. In fact they are gossiping and making me out to be the meanest mom ever when in actual fact I am just trying to do the best for my son. He is responding wonderfully for now, of course that may change but I am trying and it would be so nice for people to stop and look at the whole... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2006 23:45:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ private parts ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ one day my 2 and half little girl started hitting my chest asking what that was I said those are my boobies but nobody is allowed to touch boobies. That did she was all about boobies after that. Now she will pinch her nipples and say I have boobies. The other day my son wasn't wearing a shirt and she pionted up at him aqnd said Shawn has little boobies. I have to admit I couldn't help but laugh but is this normal. I swear she doesn't ever see anybody doing this sort of stuff at home. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2005 15:44:23 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ terminated rights ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My stepson has siblings in foster care she had the court date for the decision to terminate her rights to his siblings. Nobody will tell us if she got her rights terminated, but the judge said when we got custody that she couldn't have visitation until she got her other kids back. But that is of course not in the court papers. Has anybody else been through this? It is kinda the last peice of the puzzle that we can't find. I am just hopeing that the foster will tell us. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 09:52:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi everyone!<br>I hope you all had a Thanksgiving filled with joy, family, friends, laughs, and of course - great food! Hannah and I went to a friend's house and it was a delightful, relaxing day. However, we did have a few mishaps before the event. I was baking a Tunnel of Fudge cake, and forgot to put in the flour - the flour, can you believe it! So, I called it Pudding Cake and amazingly, some people had seconds! The trauma of the day was that Hannah sat on the glass coffee table and - not... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2005 11:45:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ National Adoption Month (November) ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I've got a couple articles posted on the website about National Adoption Month, <!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.olderchildadoption.com/nationaladoptionmonth2005.htm">www.olderchildadoption.co...th2005.htm</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--> The topic of my main article is the kids who are left behind, the ones not yet adopted. <br><br>How are you going to contribute to National Adoption Month?<br><br>Susan ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2005 09:19:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Asheville area foster/adoption festival ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Event: The WNC Annual Foster / Adopt Fall Festival<br><br>** Admission is Free! **<br><br>Where: Asheville Civic Center<br><br>When: Saturday, November 12th, from 1 to 4 pm<br><br>What: Ever thought about ways that you could help children?<br><br>Come to the WNC Foster/Adopt Fall Festival! There will be information on foster parenting, materials on youth needing adoptive homes, arts &amp; crafts, face painting, give-aways, and much more!<br><br>For More Info Call: Erica Jourdan at 828-250-5868 ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2005 11:09:27 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How SS can steal our children ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I noticed this article in the news part of the website. If people are interested in what is happening about children being taken into care in the UK, www.adoption uk.org has information on the case, and the general topics on the message forum discusses it, and has links to the full story. Some newspapers have been very biased against social services ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2005 02:10:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Handling Adulthood ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I was wondering if anyone could share experiences about how children who have had attachment issues fare when they are adults and out on their own. Also, does the time come in their development when they begin to recognize differences in their thinking and behavior compared to their peers? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2005 06:31:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Live chat, Saturday p.m. ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Spur of the moment, here... Let's do a live chat, Saturday, 9 p.m. Eastern time, US. You can stop in for a minute or a long time! And, if you haven't done an online chat before, we'll call it a &quot;practice.&quot; Just click on the &quot;Live Chat&quot; button on the top left of the screen. As I recall, it's not hard, but there's something you can click to make the screen easier to read. Anyone can check it out at any time if you want to test it before Saturday night. I'll admit, I'm not... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2005 05:09:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Just for fun - summer ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Just for fun, let's share our most fun, or most relaxing, or most memorable experience of our summer (if you're in the northern hemisphere!) so far.<br><br>Mine wasn't a big thing, just our regular game night at our neighbors. Once a month, for the past 8 or 10 months, Hannah and I get together with these friends and their 3 kids. We play a couple of board games or card games, eat some snacks, and maybe have a glass of wine for the grown-ups. <br><br>Two weeks ago our game night included... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2005 07:30:41 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Cornbread ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I thought I would share my adaptation of my grandmother's recipe. No one can ever guess the secret ingredient (my idea).<br><br>2 cups self rising cornmeal (although I always end up adding extra to <br>make it more bready and less 'cakey')<br>2 eggs<br>2 cups buttermilk<br>1 stick butter<br><br>Mix cornmeal, eggs, buttermilk and secret ingredient, I try to get it a little bit past the easy to stir smooth stage.<br>Melt stick of butter in pan (I use cast iron or terra cotta), which also... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2005 02:03:29 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ wet and gloomy June ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I don't know what the weather is like where the rest of you live, but here in NC, it's gray, wet, rain, and gray, wet, rain... Everything is so damp that papers (OK, ok... so I have a few piles here and there!) are curling up. Anything that I hang up to air dry, takes days. And, it's all making me cranky and grumpy.<br><br>Anyone else cranky, or having nasty weather, or in any other way willing to commiserate with me...?<br><br>Susan ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2005 17:32:19 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ kids insights into our behaviors ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ [re-posted from earlier in 2005]<br><br>kkl5<br>Interesting insight. Oldest boy was explaining to the 2 new FKs as I eavesdropped. &quot;Okay. Here's the deal. With Grandma, completely follow the rules right after she gets home until she relaxes. After supper, you can break about 3 rules except violence until she gets irritated; after she gets irritated, you can only mess up twice before she will go from irritated to annoyed and then there will be consequences. If she goes to pissed off, then... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2005 09:26:28 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ health insurance ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ [re-posted from 2003]<br><br>chloe<br>Okay - this issue has become a HUGE challenge for me! I'm so at my wit's end, and it wasn't a long trip.<br><br>While I was working with the adoption worker this spring, she gave me some homework assignments. One of them was to check with my insurance company and make sure CJ could be covered. I did that, they assured me that all I had to do was bring in the final papers after the deal was done and they'd sell me a policy. On April 30th CJ's adoption was... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2005 09:06:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ &quot;...tuna fish and carrots!!!&quot; ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/1472/t/-quot-tuna-fish-and-carrots-quot-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ As many of you know, I provide therapeutic-motivational respite and foster care for challenging children. These are usually kids who are being aggressive and destructive at home. They are often diagnosed with RAD (reactive attachment disorder), and many of them have additional diagnoses including things like anxiety, ADHD, learning disabilities, bipolar, etc. <br><br>While the kids are here, they practice being respectful, do chores, write apology letters, eat healthy but boring food, and... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2005 12:53:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Stress Management ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Just in case you've had a rough day, here is a stress management technique recommended in all the latest psychological texts. The funny thing is that it really works. <br> <br> <br>1. Picture yourself near a stream.<br> <br>2. Birds are softly chirping in the cool mountain air.<br> <br>3. No one but you knows your secret place.<br> <br>4. You are in total seclusion from the hectic place called &quot;the world.&quot;<br> <br>5. The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2005 10:03:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ National Adoption Month (November) ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Does anyone have any plans for National Adoption Month? I've got an article with ideas at <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://www.olderchildadoption.com/nationaladoptionmonth2004.htm">National Adoption Month 2004</a><!--EZCODE LINK END-->. Any other ideas to share? I did a couple presentations in the local elementary school about adoptive families, and am hoping to get enough time and energy to do a couple other things... <div class='signature'>Susan Ward, mama to Hannah, age... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2004 14:47:34 GMT</pubDate>
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