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			<title><![CDATA[ Adoption gift registry ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/1982/t/Adoption-gift-registry.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hi.  I am adopting a 9 &amp; 11 year old sisters from foster care.  I am so excited.  My friends want to give me a shower much like they do for new moms. 
These, after all, are my first children.  Are there stores that have adoption gift registries?  Are there adoption announcements?  Has anyone done things like
this and can give me some ideas?
<br>
Thanks ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 20:06:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ starting visitation ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/1981/t/starting-visitation.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hi.  I have finally been matched to sisters age 9 &amp;11.  I have met and had my first informal visit with them with their caseworkers and mine and their
foster mom.  Next Friday will begin a series of visits in their area...day visits...prior to them being able to come and do weekend visits.  Most of the visits
will be over a several days at once.  I am wondering what you do/say to get to know the children and them me.  I feel so stupid asking this question.  I
thought this would come... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 20:02:45 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ adoptive parents ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <br>
Hi! My name is Melina and I am a 23 year old mother. I am interested in connecting with a local couple considering to adopt and don&#39;t mind working with a
couple that already has children
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<br>
 I really want to help another family. I&#39;ve gave  birth two three months ago and i really want to do this. I&#39;m looking for a couple that feels the same
way I do. And I&#39;m really hoping for a continuing relationship after the adoption or let the adoptive parents decide
<br>
If... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (melani)</author>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 23:22:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Anabolic Steroids ..... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hey,
<br>
<br>
Is this a new site on <a title="Steroid " target="_blank" href="http://www.steroidstoday.com">Steroid</a>
<br>
<br>
I have not seen it before...            
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<br>
Here is the URL:
<br>
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<a title="http://www.steroidstoday.com" target="_blank" href="http://www.steroidstoday.com">http://www.steroidstoday.com</a> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 01:39:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Please give me a reality check. ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/508/t/Please-give-me-a-reality-check-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ We are located in Colorado and are very new to the adoption process. We have not yet completed a homestudy. We are registered for orientations through the local Adoption Exchange as well as our county that we'll complete this week and next week. <br><br>We have identified an older child (12-year-old boy) on the state photolistings that we are very interested in. Probably too interested, given how early we are in this process. I believe the child was listed in September of last year. We have... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 11:39:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Am I really naive? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi all,<br><br>So I've been reading a number of books on adoption (Parenting the Hurt Child, Attaching through Adoption, etc.) and the thing is, I think the kiddo I'm going to adopt is pretty attached to me. Am I being way too hopeful?<br><br>I met him two years ago when I was a staff member at the group home where he lives. He'd just been moved there a month before I started working there. We've spent lots of time together over those two years - Christmas two years in a row, spends the night... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 11:35:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Home studies-Are writing agencies responsible for contents? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ &quot;Agency D&quot;, wrote our home study, and at the time they suggested that we look into having children 2 or under. However, we wanted 4-12 year olds, and so we asked to have that age group on our home study. &quot;Agency D&quot;, put our ages 4-12 in the home study.<br><br>Ever since they &quot;approved&quot; the home study, they have gone out of their way to ignore emails and calls from me and agencies asking about us.<br><br>After months of harassing them to be better communicators... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 16:31:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Back in the running; a good question ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well, I guess we'll try this thing again. We are back in the running so to speak. A little scared and a little shaken, but not giving up. I hate to compare kids, but this new little fella that is considered for us has a pretty clean records compared to the last kid. No running away, no stealing, no getting expelled from school after school. No lying or cheating, etc...He comes highly recommended. So, I was talking to his therapist and she was all talking about how good a kid he was. !0 years... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2007 13:06:53 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Disruption-before it even got started ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/513/t/Disruption-before-it-even-got-started.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Sad news. Our adoption plans have benn disrupted w/the 12, nearly 13 year old boy we thought was for us. Nothing happened with us or our family, but he made decisions that opened pandora's box; and this child CAN NOT come to our home to live...especially w/a small daughter. This is the toughest thing...and there isn't enough info anywhere to prepare for this; luckily we have a great support group. My advice to anyone is really beware. We are still going to continue our search...but hopefully... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2007 04:07:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ visitations ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/516/t/visitations.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ We begin visitations tomorrow w/our son!! Any advise? Idea's? What to expect? Of course we are excited! ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2007 11:14:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Stealing and disclipine ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/517/t/Stealing-and-disclipine.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Anybody deal with any kids that had minor stealing issues? I mean like stealing 1 piece of gum from a package or something...stealing none the less. Also, what advise for disclipining a child that refused to do what you said...even if you took away prviliages. Just getting ready and trying to prepare for the worst. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 07:13:09 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Treatment Center Adoptions ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/518/t/Treatment-Center-Adoptions.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ My husband and I had planned on adopting from a foster care setting.<br><br>We were just contacted by a case worker who has a little boy in a treatment center who is scheduled to &quot;graduate&quot; from its program within a few weeks.<br><br>We know nothing about treatment centers, what adopting from such centers is like, and how to work with the child to maintain progress once he reaches our home.<br><br>Does anybody have any suggestions? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2007 17:17:54 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Treatment center adoption? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My husband and I had planned on adopting from a foster care setting.<br><br>We were recently contacted by a case worker who has a child in a treatment facility, and he is due to get out shortly. <br><br>We don't know anything about treatment facilities, what it is like to adopt from such facilities, and what we would need to do in order to maintain the child's progress once he is in our home.<br><br>Does anybody have any suggestions/advice/comments on treatment center adoptions? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2007 17:14:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Reminding Social Workers ? ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/511/t/Reminding-Social-Workers-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ My husband and I have indicated our interest in several different children in several states. <br><br>My case worker is always on the ball, but it seems as though the social workers in the other states are too overwhelmed to indicate what is happening with the children. I had been told that several children received many &quot;hits&quot;, and that their pictures would be removed from the internet. That has yet to happen.<br><br>I have been told my several different people that in order to get... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 16:40:22 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Still waiting ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/519/t/Still-waiting.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ For anyone that's been reading our process. It has been 2 months since we first made contact and told that we had been chosen for a 12 year old boy. We STILL have not met him. We still HAVE NOT signed disclosure. Still NO visitations! I tell you, Arkansas has got to be the most messed up state...But every week, we're told &quot;it's closer!!&quot; Who knows when it will be!? We're hoping this week we'll hear something. IN the meantime, we're painting his room...getting it ready. And I call... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 10:13:57 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ New to the Adoption Process ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/520/t/New-to-the-Adoption-Process.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hi there, <br><br>We are new to this. We have a 10 year old son and made the decision that we are not up for the challenge of another baby. We are wanting to adopt an older child (5-8 years of age). We were hoping for a little insight here. We would like to hear about your struggles and successes adopting an older child and how the relationship was with your other children in the home.<br><br>our son is very excited and has alot to say about the type of child. I just hope that we are making... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Unregistered(d))</author>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2007 08:31:30 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Change in plans...what to do???? ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/521/t/Change-in-plans-what-to-do-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ The ever evolving change of state adoption...a little girl, 12 years old, that we met at an adoptino fair last year has become available (again) and we were just told that we are back on the &quot;list.&quot; This little girl was like our &quot;first choice&quot; and we were stuck on her for awhile. She is the one in another thread I wrote that we had been told that we would have her by Christmas and then it didn't pan out. She was regrouped w/her siblings and told that she would go as a sib... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (lphilpott)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 10:02:19 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ No more calls, we have a winner! I think! ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/522/t/No-more-calls-we-have-a-winner-I-think-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ WE finally got the word yesterday that we were chosen for a 12 year old boy...he's in a different county, so they have to coordinate everything between the two counties. As soon as they get the most recent medical records, apparently they will then fax them to our case worker in our county and then she can talk to us about &quot;disclosure&quot; and we can sign the intent to adopt. NO telling how long this will take. Our hope is to sign disclosure and intent to adopt soon after Sprig Break... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 05:28:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Adopt older child from Vietnam - what agency to use? ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/514/t/Adopt-older-child-from-Vietnam-what-agency-to-use-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hi, I'm new here and wondering if anyone has adopted an older (maybe 2-6) year old from Vietnam? I'm wondering what agency to go through as many of them seem to have primarily infants that they refer. Are there not many older children available in Vietnam? Does anyone know what the situation is there? Any info is appreciated!<br><br>Joyce <br>PAP ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2007 15:12:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ ADHD ]]></title>
			<link>http://olderchildadoption.yuku.com/topic/506/t/ADHD.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Y'all tell me anything and everything about ADHD. We are inquiring on a 12 year old boy diagnosed with it. We're not completly ignorant on the subject...my husband was actually diagnosed w/it as a child and he even took meds for it. So we know a little, but just wondering about anyone else's experiences. Also, I've scoured the web for info... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 18:08:47 GMT</pubDate>
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