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			<title><![CDATA[ adopted a girl of 6 yrs old ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Around 6 months back, we adopted a girl of 6 yrs old as we had no child of ours. Both of us are paying best attention towards her needs and are trying our best
to bring her up like our own child. But the girl still doesn&#39;t seem mixed up with us. It seems that she is uncomfortable but never complains of anything.
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			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 15:32:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Adopting a almost 5 yr old foster daughter ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I am new here. My dh and I have 7 bio children, 2 foster children. Our foster daughter has been with us for 1 yr. We desire to adopt her. We have many issues to face, one being that we want her to have a memory book of her past, but we have nothing. We have only one picture of her mom. We would like to have baby pics if there are any. This is a minor issue at the moment. The other issue is I am wondering what else we need to consider. She was exposed inutero to crack coccaine, meth, opiates,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2007 09:16:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Family Website is free now ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I was looking for a website where I could have all my<br>family come and share information, calendars, photos<br>and everything else. There are a few out there but by<br>far The Family Post has the best sites going. I<br>started a free one at:<br><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.thefamilypost.com/basic/">www.thefamilypost.com/basic/</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2007 01:56:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Did they make the TV show yet...haven t seen it ?? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Did they make the TV documentary about renaming the town yet ? <!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.SecretSanta.com">www.SecretSanta.com</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--><br> <br>Heard the guy is making another show called &amp;#65533;Hottest Mom in America&amp;#65533;<br> <br><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.HottestMominAmerica.com">www.HottestMominAmerica.com</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--><br> <br>Maybe he&amp;#65533;ll merge the two and do &amp;#65533;Hottest Mom in... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:16:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How should my friends treat my RAD kids? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We have FOUR children with RAD. We'd like to be able to hang out with friends, but find our friends constantly answering questions for us, &quot;Mommy, may I have a soda?&quot; And the well-intentioned friend says, &quot;Sure&quot; and hands the kid a soda. Or my child is having to sit and the friend runs to console the child. Hugs given without permission. Making plans directly with the child. <br><br>Does anyone have a checklist or instructional letter to give to our friends? Something that... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 12 Aug 2006 18:46:21 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Why foster care? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Please share why you've decided to become, or are considering becoming, a foster parent. If you select &quot;other,&quot; please share a few words about what that reason is. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2005 08:11:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Foster care subsidies ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Be sure to read Carrie Craft's article titled <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://adoption.about.com/od/financialmatters/a/whatsubsidy.htm?nl=1">What is a foster care subsidy?</a><!--EZCODE LINK END-->. Carrie is an adoptive mom that maintains the adoption site at <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://adoption.about.com">adoption.about.com</a><!--EZCODE LINK END-->. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2005 12:02:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ adopting kids out of foster care ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ [re-posted from 2003]<br>klcisek<br>We are fairly new to the entire topic of fostering and adoption. Up until now, we've only vaguely heard reports in the news about foster care situations. So, please, without meaning to offend any of the wonderful, dedicated foster parents out there...how is it that there are so many bad foster care situations were the children are abused further? To me, this is worse than children being in orphanages.<br><br>The process we are looking at for international... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2005 09:00:30 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Alomost done with approval ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Last night I finished my last class (I missed a week and this was the first make-up chance). I have turned in all the required forms, etc. I also found out that my fingerprints are back and okay! I was sort of expecting it to take longer (the state has been really slow) but I guess they are finally catching up. I expect the last home visit soon and my homestudy should be finished shortly after that. My assessor has been great and I know she plans to have a pretty complete draft of the home... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2004 07:36:29 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ I got the &quot;I'm being bad so you'll send me back ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ to my birth mom&quot; admission from my 8 year old foster son today. <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START >: --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/mad.gif ALT=">:"><!--EZCODE EMOTICON END--> I KNOW this is normal, but I HATE it! It is so sad- he truly believed it too. I think between that talks I had with him, and his session with his therapist, that he gets that he is not going back to her and his home is here. <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :rolleyes --><img... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2004 18:51:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ foster parent/foster child contract ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Even as we are reeling from the events of the week, we are talking about how we will do it better next time. I have thought of a contract to be signed by the child. It would spell out all the house rules, expectations, family values, etc. The child would know going in what all our policies are and what is expected of her. From the mundane &quot;No food or drink upstairs in the bedrooms&quot; to the abstract &quot;We treat each other with respect&quot;. Seems like it would avoid a lot of... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2004 19:04:08 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ and then there were none............. ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well, we moved foster daughter #1 out today. We weren't sure until this morning, but we realized we were only postponing the inevitable. The day turned into an unbelievable saga.<br><br>We had made arrangements to have FD go to another foster home temporarily. I went upstairs to pack her stuff, and in the process, discovered drug paraphenalia. Not joints or pipes, but the bad stuff....needles. We think she may have been selling them for cigarette money, rather than using them, but who knows... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2004 18:51:19 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ one foster daughter gone........ ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ And not the one we expected, either. Our nearly 18 y-o f-daughter stirred things up when we told her and the other kids they were going to a respite weekend. She didn't like where we picked, and proceeded to go behind everyone's backs to get her way. She ended up with a family in a neighboring county, and liked it there. So much that she decided she didn't want to stay with us, and poof, she's gone. <br><br>I delivered her to her new foster family tonight. We went from fine to awful in no... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2004 19:33:30 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Leaning towards disruption....need advice ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ The honeymoon is definitely over with Foster Daughter #1. (FD #2 is working out fine, although she is still making noise about leaving care when she turns 18 in Nov.) <br><br>Both DH and I are fed up with FD's lies and &quot;con man&quot; mentality. She came by both behaviors honestly, after growing up way too fast with a dysfunctional b-mom and absent b-dad. She is a streetwise 15 y-o, going on 30. She has some good qualities, and we were hopeful that she would work out. She hasn't lasted... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2004 14:49:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Asking for removal of teen...feeling guilty ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi, I am mainly a lurker but decided to post my problem. I have been a foster parent for about a year and a half. We have only had little girls (under the age of 4). Friday we agreed to a 14 year old girl. This kid has no serious problems, she's great. The problem is me. <br><br>We have 2 little ones- 14 months and 25 months and a 9 year old daughter who is my husband's from his previous marriage. The reason &quot;J&quot; (the 14 y.o) was removed was physical abuse by dad and suspected sexual... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2004 15:17:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Our foster son just ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :) --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif ALT=":)"><!--EZCODE EMOTICON END--> Our foster son just got &quot;offically&quot; moved to foster to adopt today! His plan changed to adoption in July, but all sorts of relatives came out of the woodwork. They are all gone/ didn't follow through / were not apporved.<br><br>We were told today in a permanancy planning meeting that bascially, if we still want him, he's ours! He has a couple of new... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2004 10:55:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ We have another foster daughter ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ No, not a different one. ANOTHER one. It wasn't planned or anticipated, but here we are. We did respite care for her last weekend, and she hasn't left! She actually was justifiably miserable where she was, and the foster parents were ready for her to leave, so she is with us. <br><br>The addition of another child has caused a fair amount of jealousy to surface with our month long foster daughter, but we are hoping that it will work out in time. Amazingly our two adoptive daughters are doing... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2004 18:10:19 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ hubby's desire for Christian group home ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Several months ago, my in-laws told hubby that they support the work that goes on at the nearby Christian youth home (called Show-Me Christian Youth Home or something like that). In this palce, there are several &quot;families&quot; made up of house parents, foster kids, and and the family's kids. Each house gets about 7 kids total, and all the houses are the same: large but simple. The kids are all required to do work around the acres and acres of property, usually farm type of chores. There... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2004 19:20:52 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My not-great experience with fostering ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Ok, I'll give my short version of 10 months as a foster parent. Let me start by saying fostering was new to me. The agency contacted me about fostering this girl with RAD, PTSD, and sexual reactivity because they had heard of my work, knew I was experienced with RAD (through parenting, respite, and therapeutic tutoring), and had no other families strong enough to handle this child.<br><br>My experience with A. was - as anything new is - a great learning experience. I learned about parenting 2... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2004 17:50:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ what to expect? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My 8 year old foster son's caseworker just told him today that he will NOT be going &quot;home&quot; to his mother. She told him that the judge changed his plan to adoption because he is so special. This was well done, and was done with his therapist present, too. <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :D --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/happy.gif ALT=":D"><!--EZCODE EMOTICON END--> My fs is of course, very sad and I think more tha a little mad. He will be seeing the therapist 3 times... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2004 13:47:41 GMT</pubDate>
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